Connect CeremonyLab to Claude, ChatGPT, or Grok (Meta Muse is coming soon) and ask for help the way you already do. Your assistant sees where the ceremony stands and helps with the next step, while the officiant's words, the couple's vows and the readings stay in their own places.
The CeremonyLab address
https://ceremonylab.com/api/mcpPaste it into your assistant's connector settings, then sign in to CeremonyLab.
New to CeremonyLab? Create your account and start your ceremony first. Your assistant connects to a ceremony you are part of, either one you started or one the officiant invited you to.
A first-time officiant who pastes everything into one chat gets one blended voice back. The script starts quoting vows nobody has said yet, the vows start to sound like a narrator, and a reader's passage picks up the officiant's phrasing. CeremonyLab keeps each voice apart, and keeps background and logistics out of all of them, so each person gets help that sounds like them.
The officiant's voice
The words the officiant will say out loud, section by section. Suggestions here stay in the officiant's own voice.
Each partner's own voice
Vows belong to the person saying them. The connector never hands vow text to an assistant, so it cannot end up in the script.
Each reader's own voice
A friend or relative who gives a reading speaks in their own voice too. The connector never hands reading text to an assistant, so a reading stays the reader's.
Not a voice
Interview answers, tone, and guidelines shape the writing. They are never read aloud, so they never get treated as script.
Not a voice
Timing, staging, equipment, and the to-do list. Practical help that stays out of the ceremony words.
More on this in the guide Whose words are these?
It depends on who connects. The officiant's assistant sees the working plan. A partner's assistant sees only what CeremonyLab already shows the couple in the app.
| Officiant connects | Partner connects | |
|---|---|---|
| Ceremony overview | Names, date, venue, how ready the ceremony is, and what is still open | Names, date, venue, and how ready the ceremony is |
| Script outline | Sections in order with a short preview of each | Section titles and order only |
| Vow progress | Whether each partner has started or finished, never the words | Not shared |
| Creative brief | Tone, writing guidelines, and how much story material exists | Not shared |
| Day-of notes | Staging, timing, and equipment notes | Not shared |
| Open tasks | Every open planning task, soonest first | Open tasks the officiant has shared with the couple |
Never leaves CeremonyLab, whoever connects
The connector never hands over vow text, reading text, interview answers, locked passages, or the officiant's delivery notes.
When the officiant allows changes, the assistant can add to the plan. It never edits or deletes what you wrote, and everything it adds carries its name.
A new to-do on the officiant's list, labelled with the assistant's name.
A story or preference to remember, kept as background and never as script.
Saved as a draft next to the section. The officiant compares it and decides. Drafts that repeat vow wording are turned away.
Each partner works on their own vows with their own assistant, and no one else's connection can read them.
Every assistant uses the same address. When you sign in, CeremonyLab shows exactly what the assistant is asking for and which wedding it will see, and nothing is shared until you allow it.
Add CeremonyLab as a custom connector.
Add CeremonyLab as a connector in developer mode.
Add CeremonyLab by its address.
CeremonyLab inside Meta's assistant.
Any assistant that accepts a remote connector address.
Questions or a security concern? See how to reach us or write to hello@ceremonylab.com.
Ask what to do next, how a section usually works, or whether a passage reads well out loud.
The outline and the day-of timeline shown as cards inside the assistant.
Ask the couple's questions in conversation and file the answers as background.
A run of show, a cue sheet, and a print kit request from the chat.
A read-only outline for a coordinator or family member.
New to CeremonyLab? Set up the ceremony first, then connect your assistant. See how it works.